Wednesday Nov 30, 2022
Article about my therapeutic approach https://www.centreformalepsychology.com/male-psychology-magazine-listings/a-therapist-who-has-survived-the-family-court-process-shows-other-men-how-they-can-get-through-it-too?
The deeper reasons for the crisis in fatherhood https://zacfine.co.uk/blog/f/the-western-war-on-the-father-archetype
How to survive family court: Lessons from my own experience https://zacfine.co.uk/blog/f/your-anger-disgust-and-rage-is-as-natural-as-the-ocean-and-rocks
Points from the Pod
I really wouldn't advise anyone to go to family court
If you have to there's ways of doing it that can be affordable and much less likely to create unnecessary conflicts.
There is no point in throwing mud if you are the father and having some kind of match about who's the worst person.
Ideally represent yourself, get a Mackenzie friend if you need more support. A Mackenzie friend is someone who isn't professionally qualified as a lawyer, but they , know their way around a system
Check out Families need Fathers
Keep saying the same thing. I want to have a, a predictable and regular contact with my child because that's in their interests
There's loads of research to show that child outcomes suffer as a result of fatherlessness or motherlessness
Get yourself to a, a men's group
Join a band of brothers, which is all over England. They, do online men's circles free of charge.
If you can afford it, get some one to one therapy or coaching
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Excellent podcast- Zac so knowledgable but humble and open- informative but emotionally rich
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